Why Did My Girlfriend Leave Me, I Don’t Understand!

“Who can tell me why did my girlfriend leave me?”

I hear this question a lot, and it always boggles me that when a guy’s girlfriend breaks up with him, he never seems to have idea of why. I’d think that it’d usually be fairly clear what went wrong, but I do understand if things kind of “snuck up on you.”

It holds true for guys and girls is letting the relationship get too boring. When everything gets really predictable and there isn’t too much entertainment in the relationship, your partner can get bored and the spark can kind of “go out.”

Another one is when one or the other cheats on his/her partner. To me, this is disgusting, stupid, piggish, and completely unexcusable…I know that if my girlfriend cheated on me I’d be an absolute wreck, and it’d be over regardless of how much I love her.